Sunday, February 22, 2026

Gay of a Certain Age - Craft Night 2026


 Well, hello!

Craft Night happened a couple of weeks ago and it was another rousing success!  As a Gay of a Certain Age, I know how important it is to keep friends close and enjoy the good times!  As usual, I had no one for whom to craft a romantic card, but that didn't stop me.  I still make a few cards for family and a few lucky friends.  I also make a few that could be treated as art pieces for display. (That means, they're prolly too filthy to give to a close friend).  Here's an example of a perfectly nice card that is suitable for family or close friend.


And this one, I would prolly give only to someone I'm interested in knocking boots with...
Right?

I'm fairly certain everyone else has a fun time crafting...

Right, Kevin?


Oh, those are nice, Greg!

Is that a naughty card, Mike?

Or at the very least they enjoyed snacking...
There's always sugar on hand for Craft Night!

Speaking of sweet, it's Dudley!

So, there was that.  let's not forget it's all about the friends; Muh DABs, married guys, even girls!  My favorite part is the photo booth thingy I set up in my bedroom.  It's not very roomy, but it does the job!  I hope the others like it as much as I do!
Well isn't this a lovely gaggle of gays?

Paul & Rick, in a real Valentine moment

Rebecca is one of those girls I was talking about...

It's Muh DAB, Dennis & roomie, Penelope!

Muh DABS, Dudley & Mark;
We prolly wouldn't fight over a guy, but a Fruity Pebbles purse is a different matter altogether!

Awww, married folk; Am I Right?
Michael & Tom

Married but hanging solo? I dig that so much, John!

Syd is all heart!

Glenn, is that safe???

"Take a heart, leave heart," I always say!
Thanks, Steven!

Tommy, can you hear me?

Surprise! Mike & I are single!

This reminds me, have you watched HEART EYES this year, Kevin?

Yeah, THIS Mike and & are single, too.

Jesse is a friend...

Now I'm not so sure Syd had a good time!

While not grabbing the photobooth spotlight, guests actually crafted cards!  Here's one of Dudley's

He made a few more, but those are bit naughtier and you'll have to go to the JUMP PAGE to see them!

I was grateful that the crowd was very manageable this year and I had time to sit and craft with the others.  I didn't get very naughty this year, just naughty enough...



Well, that's it!  I had a fabulous time and I'm grateful that I am able to have, at least, one night a year where I get to host dear friends and share the love!

 I hope you had a fabulous Valentine's Day 2026, whether you are coupled, with friends or you own very special love!


BONUS SHOTS!




































Saturday, February 14, 2026

Happy Valentines Day 2026!


Happy Valentine's Day
to those of you who are dying alone, 
or are celebrating with a DAB or two!

Here is a lovely card I crafted just for you!
It's a special reminder of why 
being alone isn't always bad!!




Have a great day!
Love, Danny
 

Friday, February 13, 2026

This is Why I am Single - Frieda the 13th: A Bad Date

 


I think you might remember that I cited my drag personas and one of the reasons that I'm single.  Well, here's more to that argument; Where am I going to find a guy who not only has the patience, but the willingness to go along with ridiculousness like spontaneously shooting a short film, with no script, plan or fake eyelashes?  Okay, smarty, I hear you asking who helped me shoot this one and I'll tell you!  It was muh former DAB, Brett Freedman.  We are no longer dying alone together, 'cause he up & got married (There's an entire entry or three on it)  Anywho, Brett & I decided to shoot this while we were in Big Bear to celebrate 4th of July with Muh DAB, Dennis Hensley.  No script, no idea that we wanted to shoot a short film.  It started off as a fun photo shoot, then we decided we wanted to make a movie.  With that in mind, the beginning of this is a few stills with hard to read graphics (I'm a Gay of a Certain Age! I can't be expected to get the vertical format down on the first shot!), but we git moving pictures soon, enough.

Please enjoy this little Amuse Bush (not really any bush or nudity in it) en lieu of a Valentine floral bouquet!


Wednesday, February 11, 2026

Drag Season - Back in Chains


It was June of 2025 when Drag Season hit really hard.  After a long break, the Chico's Angels cast got together and put on a show!  The break came mostly because one of our main Angels, Ray Garcia, moved to Bay City and opened his own dance academy, like he was Debbie Allen, or something!  Also, there was this pandemic thing that shut down all theater for a while.
As you can see, I was ready to be more gay and jump into rehearsal for the show we hadn't done in over 10 years.  After a few rehearsals, the lines and blocking were starting to come back to me.  What wasn't coming back to me as quickly was my ability to run & dance around in high heeled shoes!

Gosh darn it! I'm a pro, so I just kept going until it ALL came back to me.  I couldn't just decide to play Frieda Laye in flats!  Especially not this episode, where she has a scene as a sexy street walker with a full-on number. So, to get that back, I was sure to, at the very least, rehearse all my song & dance stuff with the shoes on, then wore the heels throughout for the final rehearsals.  Meanwhile, I wore flats for the regular scenes, like the office, the prison and the classroom, where I get to sit on the new hunk's lap.

This run of this episode features many of the original cast members, or a few mainstays, but we usually have to get an entirely new hunk, because they age out or get busy being hunky elsewhere.  This run's hunk was Joe Piccuirro.
He was a sweetheart and it was a pleasure to sit on his lap!

Speaking of new & mainstays, the actress we had playing the lead girl suffered a mishap that left her unable to be in the show at the very last minute.  What to do?  We reached out to someone who had played the role before, Natalie Lander.  She said she could do it, except for the opening week!  We were in such a bind.  Who could we ask that could learn the role in 3 days?  Enter Beth Leckbee-Makler, who has played the role before... YEARS before, but had since moved to Texas, as well.  One phone call and she was on a plane and ready to re-learn the show in 2 rehearsals!
Beth, with no signs of jet lag

Beth as Roxy

Kay Sedia and Beth as Warden Cox

She did it! She slipped back into the roles of Roxy & Warden Cox with expertise and style.  The opening weekend went off without a hitch! Immediately after the opening night show ended, I saw this in my mind!

With the scariness of the first weekend allayed, we said farewell to Beth and prepared for Natalie to take over the role. We had another card up our sleeves, too! Her name is, Claire Riffle. She was an understudy, of sorts. She couldn't commit to the role because she was performing in another show, but she knew the role well enough to go on while we waited for Natalie.
Hayes Dunlap as Stanley, Claire Riffle as Roxy

Claire did a great job considering she was very new to the role and had limited rehearsal.
Soon, Natalie was free from her previous show and could join us full time, (with Claire getting a few more performances here & there).
Natalie is a living doll and I feel honored to perform with her! With Natalie in place the show ran very well for everyone. ...Except for my shoes

Here I was worried that I wouldn't be able to do the show in these shoes and it turns out the shoes couldn't handle me!  In truth, I lost 4 pairs of shoes to this show!
It really is a grueling show, what with dancing, fighting, running backwards... I surprised myself, but I was very forgiving of the shoes.  I will admit that the replacement shoes I bought had my current age in mind and weren't quite as high heeled.  Sidenote:  There aren't nearly as many places selling these racy high heeled shoes as there used to be, especially before the pandemic. It's difficult to find appropriately slutty shoes at Marshall's & TJ Max these days! 

Also, we had a back-up Bossman, Daniel Mora, who donned the bandana a couple of times
Daniel Mora as Bossman undercover

So, here's the show in pictures, just for a taste...

The Angels: Frieda Laye: Me, Kay Sedia: Oscar Quintero and Chita Parol: Ray Garcia

Frieda with Director/Co-Writer, Kurt Koehler

Frieda with Natalie Lander as Roxy

Angels' entrance

Bossman, Alejandro Patino, explains the case

Angels undercover at South Oaks Prep
Lennon Hobson as Kelly, 
Cher Ferrerya as Becky

School Hunk, Peter, with Kelly & Becky

Stanley, Hayes Dunlap, has enough for Roxy, Natalie Lander

Frieda undercover as the prostitute substitute teacher

Kay thinks Peter might like her

Frieda teaches prostitutes, Gloria (Cher) & Sonya (Lennon)


The Angels end up in towels, in jail!

The Angels have time for a number with Spice, Lennon Hobson

Rhonda, Cher Ferrerya, and the Warden, Natalie Lander, run a loose ship!

Roxy isn't sure how, but the show ends.

...But not before Kay can sing a song for Peter!

The final cast (left to right):
 Joe Piccuirro, 
Oscar Quintero, Me, Ray Garcia, 
Cher Ferrerya, Alejandro Patino, Hayes Dunlap, Lennon Hobson, Natalie Lander

This was an amazing experience, doing so many shows over 3 weeks at a Broadway schedule. It was exhausting, but rewarding. And it was a blast!  The audience seemed to enjoy it as well!  We even got a few gifts!  One very notable one is this candle made especially for each member of the cast!
Thank you, Dennis Hensley!

If you're reading this post and regret missing this show, fret not!!
We're back to do 2 more weeks of this FINAL RUN of Chico's Angels 3: Chicas in Chains!

We're running March 4-15 (The 15th is Oscar Night so, plan accordingly!)
Tickets available at kaysedia.com

It's the same cast, except for our hunk, whom we lost to a tragic employment opportunity!
Who will be our new hunk?  I guess you'll just have to come see the show to find out!!

Thank you, Mike Pingel for the photos of the actual production!