Showing posts with label Paolo Andino. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Paolo Andino. Show all posts

Thursday, July 4, 2019

Gay of a Certain Age - Gay Pride 2019 Part 2



Last I left, I was telling you how I finished the float riding and rushed over to the Best In Drag Show booth, where I watched a few hotties go by...



I also watched the rest of the parade go by- for another hour, at least!!  This is the longest the parade has ever gone, but it is also the first year it's ever been televised, so that must have had some affect.  Can you imagine just sitting back and watching these hotties go by from the comfort of your EZ Boy lounger??







After the parade was done and a  L O N G time seemed to pass, I ashamedly cut my volunteer time a half hour short and headed for the refuge of a nearby party I was invited to.  Let me explain... I was exhausted because the night prior was one of my nights cat sitting and while I love the little stinkies, this stinky is not known for letting anyone sleep passed sun up.

Contributing to my lack of sleep was the fact that the night prior I was in Long Beach for muh former DAB, Brett's post-wedding-pizza-pajama-party 
which was a delight, which made me stay late and then face the a long drive back from Long Beach to sleep with the kitties.

In addition to my lack of sleep, I had purchased some nude slippers to wear with my Nacho Pancho to avoid being in high heels all day long, but I bought the wrong size and the strap kept falling off, so in order to walk and keep the slippers on I had to curl my toes in them, which leads to cramping as one walks along... they also gave me blisters.  That is why I cut my time short and headed over to the party which offered snacks & drink, which I also needed badly.  The final factor in my heading for the party was that it was much closer than my apartment.  

On my way there, I bumped into these delightful fellas, who had just left the party and recommended my attendance.

Now, to be clear, both I and my alter-ego, Reba Areba, were invited to this tiny pool party via the Facebooks, so the hosts must have expected I might show up in the drag.  Right?
So, I got to Bryan and Paolo's tiny pool party...

It was a fun time to be sure, but I felt a little out of place in my full drag pride regalia...
There were guys there, just relaxin'...

But I felt it most when this guy turned his back to me...

I thought, "Two of me fit on that back..."

I don't know, I guess it felt like I had walked into a man-sexy party and I put a damper on it once I walked in (even though there were actual females in attendance.)  Even though I felt self conscious, I still had a good time and tried not to be intimidated by this...
in my face every time I purposefully turned around to see hot muscles.

Look! We all had a good time!


...Even though I misunderstood when host Bryan told me to grab something to eat...

Not long after my arrival, after maybe three drinks or more, I called a Lyft and gladly paid the price to have someone drive me 1 exact mile to my home.  There, I de-dragged and exhaustedly headed back to the cats, ignoring the fact that I don't know how to watch live TV in the cat house and would thus miss the Tony Awards broadcast.  The cats needed fooding and I was tired.

As a gay of a Certain Age, I've discovered that a full day of Gay Pride takes a lot more energy than it used to!  Seriously? Too tired to watch the Tonys???

Well, that's my Gay Pride Story, now please enjoy some of  my random sights from the day...



























Peace out!







Tuesday, February 12, 2019

This Is Why I Am Single - Craft Night 2019 - The Guests


Yes, it's that time of year; the time when couples rub singles' faces into the poop of their own loneliness, Valentine's Day!!  Of course, I had my annual  Craft Night, we I invite a bunch of friends over, we talk, drink, snack and craft Valentine's for people unknown.  This year there was a big rain, so I had a lot of cancellations- but, it was still a great time because with fewer people there than usual, I had more time to actually sit and visit with friends.  Please understand that this event has gone from six people sitting around my dining room table in 2006 to some 60 invited guests darting in and out between 4 pm and 11 pm at my larger dining table, plus two other tables crammed into my living room.  It's tight, but cozy and people usually have a nice time.  Like I said, this year was a little lighter, so I was able to participate, rather than host, more than usual.  I got to make a few Valentines with everyone else, like this one:
 

This Is Why I Am Single: I probably don't invite the guy who's gonna be my husband!  But there's so many people on the guest list already!

I invite so many people because I'd hate to hurt anyone's feelings, or make them think that they were judged lacking in crafting skills and weren't invited back because of it.  It's not true.  It's just that my place is not large and a few moments last year, we almost got to the point where someone had no place to sit.  I thought about creating an annex in my bedroom, but that has since become the photo op place.  take a look:















This isn't everybody who showed, but it's a fair representation...
Anyway, I'm trying to find a solution to my quandary over how to manage my invite list. 
Space wasn't an issue this year, but I can't count on heavy rain in the future. I'm sure I'll figure it out. meanwhile, I'm grateful to have this problem, because while I may be single, I'm not alone...










This last photo features the delicious Bryan Thompson and the sabroso Paolo Andino, 
notable because Paolo is marking his 10 year anniversary return to Craft Night.

His Previous visit was in 2009 as a guest of muh DAB, Dennis Hensley!  This year, he had his very own invite!
Welcome back Paolo!

2009 FLASHBACK: