I am certain I'm a happy person... I feel very fortunate to have the life I have and the ability to live as I do. This weekend I was reminded that I have plenty of love and support from friends and family and I am grateful. My post about my anger at something my Alleged Father posted elicited some responses I wasn't expecting. I certainly hope the post did not come across as a desperate bid for attention, (although the attention paid was much appreciated). I've seen enough episodes of THE PRACTICE & some LA LAW to know that there is need for a re-direct.
Sometimes, especially in a self-righteous rage, my words may seem stronger than intended. I worry (and understand if) my message may have been misunderstood. So, here is where I will redirect (If I may, Judge Judy, your honor...) My message should have been "Please don't simply like and share propaganda without taking time to think if it's something you actually do feel and agree with." Simple, right? My presentation and word choices most likely steered readers to believe my message was "I hate my alleged father who hates me first!" That wasn't my intention and certainly not what I meant. I apologize to my siblings (Thank you for your messages) if I caused you any stress or worry. While his post did anger me and I do still hold some resentments that I am not shy to air & stand by, I do not hate my alleged father or believe that he actually meant the post as a personal attack.
As a Gay of A Certain Age, I've come to understand that writing about one thing, while feeling strongly about another can lead to a misleading message. I also realize there might be a nicer way to call someone out on their crap.
Why are we, as gay men, required to "take care" of the oppressor when they are put off by our anger? I am done taking care of straight people who don't like what I say. I will agree, though, that there are ways to express oneself that work better than others. It all depends on what it is you intend to accomplish.
ReplyDeleteAnd your alleged father sounds like an asshole.